Showing posts with label thinking. Show all posts
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Tuesday, January 30, 2024

Four types of Motivation

 

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 Last evening, as I was browsing the internet, I came across something which really resonated with me.  The original article that caught my attentions was about why one person may be elected over another person.  It talked about opposite types of motivation thinking which the writer felt was dividing the country.   What interested me were the terms extrinsic and intrinsic.   As I read, I had a personal A-Ha moment regarding how I am blocking myself when I sit down to write,  
After reading this particular piece, I thought about what I had felt as the author of the article discussed the two terms.  As a result I decided to look for another article on those terms.   Happily, I was led to another article which stated that intrinsic and extrinsic motivation were only two of four kinds of motivation. (Intrinsic, Extrinsic, Identified and Introjected)  With your permission, I would like to share just a few ideas about these ideas which I learned, or rather stuck with me as interesting.  
Intrinsic Motivation is driven by personal satisfaction.  Intrinsically motivated people feel compelled to pursue goals for its own sake, out of interest or enjoyment. For example, journaling, or pursuing a new hobby.  Singing or dancing, just because you enjoy it might fall into this area.  
Extrinsic Motivation is driven by external rewards or punishments. Extrinsically motivated people often pursue a goal because it will benefit them in some way, such as money or praise.  For example, if you want to lose weight because you think it will make you look good or appear healthier. A desire for praise is common, as is a fear, such as loss of love, work or resources. 
Identified Motivation is driven by outside sources, rewards or punishment.  Identified motivation is sometimes seen when a person desires to be like someone else, particularly someone they may admire, appears to have more, or is perceived as cool or important to others.  Identified motivation can sometimes be driven by fears, such as a fear of failure or not being seen as of worth as themselves. 
Introjected Motivation is driven by one's values and beliefs. This type of motivation occurs when one believes they have skills or abilities which can be used productively.   It involves pursuing a goal because of a desire for personal growth or social contribution.  This type of motivation may prompt one to seek out some additional training, or reach out to a friend or neighbor in service. 
I encourage you to take a few minutes and think about what type of motivation has been at the center of your most recent actions or decisions.  Are your enjoying life, or chasing someone else's dream life?  For myself, I realized, I am my best when I am intrinsically motivated or choosing into introjected motivation.  However, I will continue to admire and listen, with respect to many men and women I know whom are motivated in other ways (Extrinsic, Identified).  There is a place for all of us.   The only right or wrong is what we choose personally. 


Sunday, May 1, 2016

A Part of Your Life


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"The only thing that makes it a part of your life is that you keep thinking about it."
 
In reviewing a list of quotes, this one stood out for me because I knew it was true.  Recently a series of moments, during what I would call a less than perfect day, left me feeling depressed, frustrated, unhappy and questioning my decision and who I thought I was..  I kept thinking,  about the day, consciously or unconsciously, allowing myself to stay in that same frame of mind, each day getting more depressed and lower in my self-esteem.   

The first thing I had to do was to realize  I was holding on to the experience by thinking and analyzing whether I should or shouldn't feel the way I was. The thing which was triggering my thinking was a dent in my new car.   I couldn't change the dent, but I could change my perspective or thinking about it.  Instead of viewing the dent as a reminder of something wrong, a bad day or unusual choices I needed to allow it to be simply what it was a dent.   I could continue to dwell on all the reasons it had occurred or stop thinking and let it be a moment in life, something that occurred but didn't make a lot of difference as life and time moved on.  Just as the dent was a minor flaw on an otherwise smooth metal surface, so the experience was just a wrinkle in the otherwise smooth flow of good days I had been enjoying and the ones that followed.  

The dent has not disappeared, but my depression, lowered self-esteem and feeling of frustration have.  I no longer dwell on what I should or could have done differently that particular day.  Now, if I happen to notice the dent, it serves as a reminder to let the small things in life be small and enjoy the abundance of good things and wonderful moments I experience everyday. 

The choice is yours. Are you going to allow something negative to remain by continuing to dwell on and think about it or let it go so something better can become a part of your life?